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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t know why y’all marry these men.[/quote]

When I married him, he was a self-sufficient adult who owned a home, was great at his job, planned dates for us, did his own laundry, etc. I never expected to be in this situation, and even when we had one kid he was pretty good. But something about the second kid... he just checks out a lot now. I have no idea what red flags I supposedly missed. I don't know what I could have done to prevent this beyond aggressively forcing him to take on childcare duties when they were babies. Should I have forced him to take a solo paternity leave, would that have helped? But then how do you even do that, it was not an option for us.

I think he hit a limit on parenting and we didn't know what that limit was going to be until we exceeded it. He was doing fine up until then.[/quote]
+1  It's hard to know what kind of parent someone will be before they have kids.

Also, I've said it many times, most men should not have children because they don't want the actual responsibility of raising a child.[/quote]

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