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[quote=Anonymous]To answer your specific question I need to know how much you make compared to him. We split our stuff up in a way, but other stuff we do separately. Spouse makes 100k I make 60k. We have a joint account that we both pay into although spouse puts in more than me. Mortgage and house bills come out if that as does Costco trips. Spouse pays all childcare. I pay for all house/family type things at Target because I have a red card so just pay that myself. I also pay our cleaning person $240 per month. To know if it’s fair you pay for everything but he does the mortgage I need to know your income. If you make 50k then no it doesn’t sound fair because you would be struggling. If you also make 6 figures and you have a high mortgage that he pays and you pay the other stuff and it equals out then I think that’s fine. [/quote]
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