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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Funny that you're sooo busy that you can't possibly help her, yet here you are wasting time on DCUM complaining about her.

Some "friend" you are.[/quote]

OP here - 90 seconds to make a post doesn't compare to committing several hours for me to make a 10 minute montage with music and intro/outro which is what she wanted. I'm competent enough to make something, but not skilled enough to crank it out in 15 minutes.

It's not like I've said "no" to the dozen other help requests immediately before/after her mom's death. I'm human too and I'm hurt. [/quote]

You're spending a lot more than 90 seconds dwelling on this.  [/quote]

OP, I totally understand why you cannot do a montage for your friend on such short notice.
And that is okay.

Ignore this pot stirrer.

I can understand your friend’s grief - losing a parent is a very huge loss.
Still, it is my personal opinion that your friend is acting disrespectful toward you considering everything you have already done for her already.
I would stop communicating w/her since she seems to be ignoring your texts at this time.

With time, hopefully your friend will realize that she let her grief cause her to behave irrationally and will apologize to you.
It would be nice if this entire issue can blow over.
Only time will tell….[/quote]

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