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[quote=Anonymous]Op, I could be you in that story, only I have five sisters. They’ve always treated me differently and judged my decision on career, marriage, children, just everything. I never do anything right and am constantly criticized to my face and behind my back, both of which hurt tremendously. This is my family, it just hurts. My dh sat me down after one of our family  get togethers and made it clear to me that I had distance myself from the mess that is my sibling rivalry or he would leave our marriage. He was not interested in the bs about our lifestyle from my sisters who he said were clearly jealous I took a different path in life and quite frankly had a better lifestyle than they chose. Think vacations, larger home, date nights, amazingly rewarding job and a pretty f g incredible man for my dh. You know what, he nailed it. He’s been in my life for ten years and has witnessed time and again their pettiness and mean girl treatment of me. I listened to him and no longer go around my sisters as a group. I see them individually and while not perfect, it’s better for my sanity. I’m a good, generous person and the talking behind my back was painful. I’ve never not been there for anyone in my family but that had changed. Haters are gonna hate, that’s what I finally realize. I love my life and my family and I’m sorry my sisters can’t be genuinely happy for me. That is their problem now. [/quote]

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