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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't say OP is completely blameless. I don't like the distance and sleeping on the couch, and then expecting her to be around when he deemed he was ready to discuss it.

That's not maturity.

I totally get his being upset about them keeping this a secret from him. That's valid.

I'm just against silent treatment.

Final diagnosis: this relationship is likely done, and you both have some growing to do as individuals before you are ready for marriage.[/quote]

OP here. In all fairness, I told her I needed some time to think things over. Would you want to sleep in the bed with someone who lied to you for a whole year about banging your best friend? It was better for me to think things through than to get upset and say something I might regret.

I also did not go full silence. We still talked but I didn’t want to talk about anything yet. I wasn’t having sex or being intimate towards her but I still treated her with basic human decency and respect. I still love her and wouldn’t treat her poorly. She got mad I refused to talk about it and left. She doesn’t know if she wants to be with me after how I handled things. [/quote]

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