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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are entitled to end this relationship; you don’t need anyone’s approval.  This man and this relationship are no good for you.

I’m sure people will flame you for being the OW. They will flame you for keeping up the emotional component of the affair, and for having the audacity to want to communicate with this guy while he and his family were dealing with his acute health issues.  They might also flame you for writing in an extra long block paragraph.  Your desperation comes through, and I feel for you.  Dump this guy once and for all and improve your life.  Become the version of yourself you aspire to be. You will never get there with this guy hanging over you.  [/quote]

All of this, OP, and I write this with compassion. Filter out the rage that’s being punted at you. He may love you, but he is a total coward.  You can’t possibly respect and admire someone so cowardly that you can’t communicate when he thinks he’s dying. Seek a compassionate counselor; take up new routines; end it with him and block his numbers. Life is long and a new person may be around the corner. 
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He’s not a coward. He’s a man that made a mistake, had an affair and now she won’t go away.

Quit filling her head with nonsense.  Affairs are fantasy BS.  Whatever was said was not real.

When someone tells you stop contacting them, stop contacting them.

You need serious help, OP.  Your obsession is unhealthy.[/quote]

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