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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She may be asking for advice or opinion, but what she really probably wants is listening and validation. She just wants you to enter into her worries, not fix them. Can you do that? Because this won’t be the last time. All through your life together she is going to want you to just be there, listening to her and supporting her, without actually fixing or doing anything. If you want to try, then let go of any judgement about her wasting money. If she asks if you like this title or that, tell her what you LIKE, not what you’d USE IN HER SHOES. If she complains that the work is exhausting, make listening noises and agree that renovation is exhausting. That’s it. That’s all she wants from you. Do you have the ability to give her that?[/quote] That sounds exhausting. Why would anyone want to spend time let alone marry someone so self centered?[/quote]
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