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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does he have PTSD if he was deployed?[/quote] Yes. He has a slew of issues but won’t address them because he’s “old school” and doesn’t believe in therapy or mental health. He’s very much, “buck up, shut up, and deal with it.” It’s upsetting to watch. [/quote] He needs to do EMDR, you must demand it or else. Also I would choose activities for him to do with the kids and require he do them. It won't hurt your kids to fish or hunt with your H. Your kids should pick one thing they like to do and your H should do that.[/quote] Forcing a sensitive child to kill animals for fun in order to earn the love of his father who otherwise can't be bothered because he clearly doesn't love the child for who he is actually sounds very harmful to me.[/quote] I'm sure a sensitive child will survive fishing. [/quote] The fishing isn’t the problem. Forced time with an emotionally neglectful dad who doesn’t like him could be legit traumatizing. [/quote]
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