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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People like this believe a lot of their own lies too. For example, emotional affairs or affairs that are caught before they get started.... it's easy for them to say "I never would have ACTUALLY cheated." They think the only boundary is PIV and if they don't cross it, they're innocent. [/quote]

Oh my gosh. Yes, this. My ex-boyfriend had a thousand reasons why it didn't count, including that it wasn't PIV, that it wasn't with a woman, and that he was too drunk to remember if he climaxed. [/quote]

Yep. My ex-bf rationalized it by “well I didn’t intend to”. Like he just tripped and landed on top of another woman.

Also would give elaborate, long speeches when asked straightforward questions, without ever actually giving an answer. Like if I asked “it seems you don’t want to be on a committed relationship with me. Do you want to commit or no?” and would go on and on and the true meaning of commitment, how he deeply understands what commitment is, the patriarchy (??) without ever answering.

Although I think the worst were the mental health excuses. “I was going through a hard time and severely depressed. You have no idea how bad it hurt ME to do those things”. Yea dude, I’m sure pursuing other women was such a difficult, traumatizing time for you. [/quote]

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