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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get child support through a court order, not some ad hoc agreement between you two. Get it taken out of his paychecks. [/quote]

OP, based on what you've said, I would NOT do this. You could end up in a nightmare situation if you file for child support and the guy gets angry and retaliates. I'm talking about him retaliating against you legally, using the family court system. Trust me. You want peace. You don't want to be stuck in a hell that never ends.

It sounds like you can financially support your child on your own; DO THAT. Use your village, it IS doable. And it gets easier in many ways as the child gets older. It is hardest in the early years. You can definitely do it. Sending you love.
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Thanks :) I can see him retaliating for child support, as of now I'm not putting him on the birth certificate or filing for child support. He's made no effort to communicate or coordinate with me, so I'm hoping he'll just sort of disappear, which will help me in the future. [/quote]

How would he retaliate?  Wanting visitation/custody?  He has every right to if he's paying child support.  Get a paternity test after birth and file for child support.  If you refuse to put him on the birth certificate or let him be involved, then don't complain and plan to do it all on your own.  It sounds like you both are being difficult and its not what is best for the child.[/quote]

PP, you have a real problem with reading comprehension. Go back and read the OP of this thread.
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