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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You sound dramatic and awful.

Asking someone to take a dog is a big responsibility. Just because he's not married and doesn't have kids doesn't mean he wants a dog. If the dog is old it'll have a lot of medical problems. Has it occurred to you that maybe the brother doesn't have pets because he doesn't WANT that responsibility?

Maybe your brothers wanted to put your mom in a place where she'd be nearby and they could visit her regularly. Just because you invested a few hours to find a different place doesn't leave you entitled to tons of money.

Stop being greedy and a martyr. Man, you really just sound like an awful person.[/quote]

And what about OP? She is contributing her time and effort into finding solutions that work for THEIR mom.  The minimum her brother can do is take care of the dog. And did you read the part where brother wanted to put mom into that hole to save money?
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It sounds like the brothers' solution would have worked for their mother, too.  It just didn't work for OP.  [/quote]

Thing is, for some, [b]daily visits would be better than a nice view[/b]. So OPs choice might not be all that great. [/quote]

Exactly.[/quote]

This. Also if you bleed all her money going for fancy things she may not be able to stay there. Better to have something she can afford and visit. But, OP, you are apparently God and know best. Good luck to you with your savior complex.[/quote]

+1 to all the above.  Given OP's assumptions about her brother taking the dog, I don't consider her a reliable reporter.  It's unreasonable for her to disagree with her brothers about her mother and then complain about the extra work she chooses to put into it. [/quote]

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