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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorced at 42, now 51. Would never say that I would never remarry, but . . . I don't NEED to, financially or emotionally. So I've passed over at least 3 men who would have gone down the path to marriage because I will only make that commitment for a really healthy relationship, and we didn't have that. I would have had to be what these men needed me to be to have a successful marriage, rather than who I am, because it was all about their needs. I feel like most middle aged divorced guys can only think about themselves, and that doesn't interest me. Because I have my own money and don't feel social pressure to be married. So . . . why do it?

[Perhaps the same is true for middle aged divorced women - I only know who I meet dating][/quote]

I feel like most middle aged divorced woman can only think about themselves. [/quote]

I find the opposite. They are the ones that help everybody.. the friend with cancer, the local food bank, the widow in the neighborhood, their parents, their nieces/nephews.

Now that their life blood isn’t being sucked out of the day in and day out they are there for everybody. They are free to be the loving supportive friend, the good daughter, the sister and aunt they want to be.

No baby at home “take care of” day in a d day out or pouting because they don’t get enough attention.[/quote]

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