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[quote=Anonymous]OP, we recognize your post from the limerence thread. You are spending a fair amount of time wondering how you can get along with this person, when, as others have said, you need to be focusing your energy on getting away from this person. Not only is he totally disrespecting you, your kids and the marriage, he is manipulating you into thinking that you are the problem here. If you would only be kinder and more understanding of what he is going through, things would be so much better. Yes - better for him. Now is the time for you to look out for you and your kids. View everything you do through that lens. You help you and the kids and not him. Taking that perspective hopefully will keep your head out of the clouds and keep you focused on your mission. Which is to safeguard (or reclaim) your dignity and self respect. [/quote]
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