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[quote=Anonymous]I’ve never had an affair with a married man, but in grad school, I was in love with a man who was in a long distance relationship. I should say secretly as I hadn’t told him or anyone else. We worked together as research assistants. I wasn’t even sure that he had any feelings back until his gf showed up and she began acting over the top about their relationship and he started acting guilty. She took me out to lunch one day and told me their whole love story and that he could have joined her fabulous life in Europe but he wanted a doctorate so badly so she “let” him do it as long as he promised to behave. She implied he had misbehaved. Meanwhile, we hadn’t even touched each other. They were engaged within a month of her arrival. She left her dream job and a great apartment overseas to protect her investment in a guy who she believed was falling in love with someone else. She made him leave our grad program at the end of the semester and move in with his parents. He looked really shell-shocked. I don’t believe in affairs, but just the possibility of one cost them both so much. [/quote]

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