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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I look back on my long term affair (10 years) not with regret but sadness.

He filled a giant void in my life at the time and it was very hard to end it (took work sex scandal that happened when he had affair with someone else in time when we only saw each other twice a year).  And he was great lover.

[b]But proved to me I suck at picking men so I have avoided relationships since then.[/b]  Busy with work and being single mom and it’s okay [/quote]

You think?!?!!

For godsakes, you picked a MARRIED man.  A dishonest cheater.  He had already proven to be a liar before you even started seeing him (he's betraying his wife).

It really isn't too difficult to avoid that.  I don't think it's a picker when people choose to hook up with married people (or vice versa), it's a mental issue or past unprocessed trauma from childhood.[/quote]

Exactly. She wasn't taught or learned back in childhood the morals and values most of us know. I know I wouldn't rob a bank, or steal from my neighbor whose garage door was left open. It's part of a mental illness, and poor judgement she still has.  Obvious because she still can't identify as you pointed out that he was a pretty horrible person. She is still portraying it as a fantasy that never existed.  It's sad because all her poor life choices has landed her in the situation she's in. [/quote]

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