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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]7:16 again. Anyone want to talk about the gaslighting that’s part of a limerance EA? When you ask your DH about the friendship, keep getting reassurance that it’s just a friendship, just like brother and sister. Just friends. Stop being paranoid. Just friends. When you warn them to maintain boundaries and DH blows that off. Until you randomly ask about that friend, hey, how’s Larla? And DH says I’m in love with her and want to be with her, and can we work on an amicable non litigious divorce? Because you know we don’t have to hurt each other, why do you want to hurt me by lawyering up? [/quote]

The funny thing is the gaslighting only works so long.

You described my ex to a T. She actually thought I was an idiot. In her state of limerance, she evidently forgot I am an investigator.

We are divorced now. She gets no alimony because adultery is a crime on Virginia. Married 18 years. My salary is $250,000 a year, she tried to avoid working so has nothing. I would have owed her heaps of alimony if she hadn’t behaved in that way. [/quote]

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