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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your husband knows what's going on if he's a good man. He is just sad and grieving. Let him go through the stages of grief. You telling him "my child comes first" doesn't help. The family is a unit. His needs do matter and right now you just need to let him be sad. Would it be okay with you if he does some kind of volenteering with dogs? I'd sure hope the answer is yes. Also, who selected the allergist. "get rid of the dog" is a very harsh thing to hear, even if it is ultimately the solution. It's like a doctor telling a runner "Just don't run anymore". Not nearly as easy as it sounds. I'd suggest to your husband that since he wants to keep the dog, he find an allergist who shares his viewpoints. This way he'll hear that the dog needs a new home from someone other then "mean Mommy and all her friends". And do let him cry and grieve. Loosing a dog is very much like loosing aperson. [/quote]
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