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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are a stepmom but originally you were the AP, what’s the relationship like with the kids now? Do they know?[/quote] Nope. My husband divorced in 2002 and I met him in 2004. But the kids' mother TELLS the kids I'm the reason for the divorce. :roll: [/quote] My husband's ex too but we met 6 years post divorce. She had the affair, moved in with him (taking the kids cross country) and is still with him unmarried. She tells them all kinds of made up stuff and minimizes that she cheated. She even makes claims of abuse but cannot provide any evidence and I have yet to see any in the 15 years we've been married. She and her AP destroyed two marriages and hurt multiple kids in the process. AP would't pay child support.[/quote] Same. I think this is common. I’ve been married for 21 years. DH’s ex is still bitter. She insists I caused the divorce. The kids are adults and know better. It was frustrating when they were little. I don’t care anymore. [/quote]
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