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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband told me his best friend from college who married quite young drunkenly cheated a few times in the first year of marriage and also on his bachelor party. Never told his wife and she's totally oblivious to all of it. Claims he hasn't since. They've been married 20 years![/quote]

Your husband most likely has as well.  Men/women with friends that did/do this almost always have as well.[/quote]

Omg. Yes! For years I heard about my husband’s best friend that was cheating on wife.  My husband always acted like it was wrong and we’d be like “I can’t believe he’s doing that”.  Well- guess what? 18 years in I found out (completely blindsided!!) my husband was cheating.  Never ever in a million years would I (or his/my family) have thought he’d ever do this.  Perfect family man and husband and all.  We had a great sex life/great marriage/relationship.

I have heard from numerous other people similar stories.  It’s some weird psychological way of confessing without confessing and testing the waters.[/quote]

It’s gaslighting!  My husband and I had running jokes about a fake mistress.  Turns out all that time he had a real f—img mistress!!!!  Your guard is down and mind is twisted.  It’s some crazy stuff.[/quote]

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