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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But what they don't seem to realize is that this is only because they had a straight clean path, as opposed to the messy crooked path I had; a path that being the first of my friends to turn 21 wasn't worth.[/quote] You're right, they don't know what you went through. Their comment is not about you. I suspect the conversation would go very differently if they knew what you had been through. People complain in the abstract without intending it to hurt others. E.g. I'm sure it hurts parents who have lost children to hear other parents complain about their living children. That doesn't mean parents should never complain, but of course they should take their audience into consideration. You're hearing complaints about drinking age from people who don't know you are part of the audience. I say this with kindness: perhaps a counselor can help you get past this, so you don't personalize comments not intended to attack you.[/quote]
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