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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You keep forgetting his wife in all of this.  Very self-centered both of you.  His wife certainly didn’t “deserve” to be cheated on and lied to for years, and certainly not be in a non-monogamous marriage without her knowledge or consent.  Talk about abuse.

You have A LOT of work to do since you still cannot see that and still want to frame your affair and AP as something just wonderful.  You are shittt and he’s shitty, and (though I’m only getting your version), your husband is shitty.  I don’t really by that you are abused.  You sound all about justification and mental gymnastics.[/quote]

Of course I haven't forgotten his wife. I don't pretend that what I & he did was anything but self-centered and shitty to her. She was IMO blameless. There was absolutely a time when if he had left her I would have married him and I can never apologize to her knowing that (not that I would disturb her now anyway). She wasn't lied to though, she knew and stayed. She was smart to stay but it took a heavy toll. He made it up to her later, she got sick and he took good care of her. I think they are okay now. He has contacted me a few times over the years. I don't respond. [/quote]

He was never going to marry you :lol: .[/quote]

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