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[quote=Anonymous]I would take him up on his offer to take the kids to the cabin this time, because you have work commitments coming up you really do want to prepare for. But I would also have the expectation that this cabin trip is fully his project and so I wouldn’t be packing for the kids, shopping for the food, etc. Going forward, I would end family visits to this cabin until the mold is dealt with. Small bathrooms and uncovered windows aren’t doing long term damage to anyone but mold really can (not to mention it will have to be remediated if they ever want to sell it) and it seems like he should be willing to put in a little effort so you’re not physically ill. You should then put in some effort a few (maybe four?) times per year for something your husband really loves— bring an amazing book or a craft project and try to make it a break for yourself as well.[/quote]
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