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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm siding with a lot of PPs here - let him take the kids on his own this weekend, but it's time for a sit down to talk about him pouting about you not wanting to go to a mold-infested cabin with crappy plumbing that makes you sick.

While I get that going up there may not be your jam in general I also think that if it was fixed up and you physically felt well then you should give it a chance. It could be a great place to create some family memories. But your husband had got to meet more than halfway and work to make it liveable and pleasant for you.[/quote]

The cabin makes you sick.  It is NOT okay for him to push you going there.  No one wants to vacation on Planet Benadryl.  It just sounds like misery from start to finish.

For those who suggest stacking meds on top of meds: constant exposure to allergens like mold is VERY bad for your health, even with antihistamines.  Especially when we are dealing with a deadly pandemic in which the worse reactions seem related to cytokine storms, you don’t want to be amping up the systemic allergic response system.

Mold is very bad, even if DH himself doesn’t experience mold allergy symptoms.  Assuming you are not in poverty, if he wants to own this cabin and visit it regularly, he has to make it a priority to get mold remediation done.  [/quote]

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