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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get a divorce. And get a career.

I think you have a mistaken view of what it takes to be a homeowner and a parent. Most people are not SAHMs in areas like DC.

FWIW, my exH and I built our life because both of us worked. In fact, he would not let me stay home with kids (which is why I did not want kids with him because I wanted to stay home only in babyhood). Babies came anyway. I worked.

When we were dating, he would not date a woman who was not making six figures. I am divorced and okay only because I never stopped working.

You need a career first.

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Bad example fir egg hi server you were trying to prove. Something about you made you pick and stick with a loser.[/quote]

Some men do not care about their wife's salary. Some do. 
Yeah...family pressure saying I was "too old' to be single...it was a mistake. (He would not call himself a loser...he does okay...GS-15).[/quote]

A GS-15 is not a loser.  The fact that you do says more about you, none of it good.  If you can't afford kids on a GS-15 salary, it's on you.  You might have to compromise on your home's location or size, but $170K+ is not peanuts.  Certainly it's way more than you earn, so it's not clear what gives you the standing to look down on him.  [/quote]

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