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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]$50 is really too little, IMO. I grew up in a wealthy area in NY, and got bat miztvah'd in 1989. I think ONE friend gave me $72, two sisters gave me a gold bracelet, and everyone else gave $90 or $108. So to give $50 NOW, seems way too low. FYI, if your kid isn't close with the kid who invited them, they don't have to go (and thus, don't have to give a gift). [/quote] NY/NJ is a totally different ballgame. Rules are y there. Same for weddings where $100 is absolutely not ok to give. Here, people are cheap, and it’s fine. Op if you are in DC $54 or even $36 is fine. [/quote] Yes, NY is a whole 'nother scene. I got absolute hell from a family member for a $100 wedding gift once. I had no idea...[/quote]
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