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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Op, would you consider telling your brother the situation? It seems dysfunctional to keep him out of the loop. (I am assuming he is not a minor, because... clearly he needs OUT of that house. Also, he might very well have been victimized too).. Your step dad is a manipulative and toxic man. [b]Your mother is weak. She should leave him, even if he kills himself.[/b] That’s not her responsibility. But if she does stay with him, she doesn’t get to unload her guilt on you. I’m all for honoring one’s parents, but she needs to have the right response to maintain a relationship. [/quote] Yep. If I found out my spouse had done that to my child, and he then threatened to kill himself, I would ask would he prefer I get him a rope or a gun. Protect your family and draw those boundaries. [/quote] +1. Tell her you don't want to talk to her ever again, until she can make the right moral decision to side with the abused instead of the abuser.[/quote]
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