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Reply to "What did your spouse's midlife crisis look like?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]After 30 years of marriage, and turning 50, wife, in a mid-life crisis, had a few affairs. One long term, probably still occurring to this day. When pressed on the issue, she will not agree to a separation or divorce. Too much water under the bridge. I will always forgive her. I just cannot go down the road she's traveled. Never have believed that two wrongs make a right.[/quote] Want her out? Cut her off. No vacations, eating out, fancy cars. She'll agree when you mean business.[/quote] As someone who was subjected to this (not bc of infidelity), this will only push her further away. If he wants her to quit the extramarital stuff becoming controlling about money is not the way. IMO it is his continuous forgiveness and love that she cannot handle, and it is bc of attachment and self-esteem/maturity issues in herself.[/quote]
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