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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]when I’m out and about in public. [/quote]

You're fine if you clearly need to ask where the men's room is, are coughing and pointing to water, etc.

If you are at a party, banquet, fair, dance, or other social then yes you should introduce yourself and respectfully mingle.  No need to wallflower or be antisocial.

If you are at gym, don't bother someone working out except to smile or offer a spotter.  You can at the pizza night, parties, or after workout smoothie bar, introduce yourself with "I recognize you from the cardio studio/vinyasa/pool/etc."

If you are taking a class or workshop you can invite your classmates to lunch or request them to join your study group.

You can offer to help her arthritic nana with the groceries, or hold the door for her wheelchair bound brother, etc.

If you are at a clothing store, you can say "My girl is about your size and I want to surprise her with a new dress.  Do you think this would be flattering?".  If you are at Sur la Table, a tasting, or even an Italian cultural center/embassy, you can ask how often she uses her instant pot if you are on the fence about buying one, or where a good italian grocer is.  Anything relevant to your location or topic is fair game.

Do NOT ask women their ethnicity or any porn search term.  "Where are you from?" is fine.  "What are you?", "But where are you really from",  "Where are your grandparents from?", etc instantly make you evil.  Same with "I like the latin butt", "Are Asians tighter?", "I thought swedes would be blonde" or any racial comments.  All Evil and report and call out guys as racists if you overhear this.

If someone on the street sexualizes a woman, orders her to "Smile" or anything else he wouldn't say to a man, intimidates/threatens/insults, ALWAYS call him out or express explicit disapproval that it is not cool and report him.  This approach is not acceptable and YES this is why woman want to be left alone.  These guys are 100% why it is harder for men to date/approach-women NEVER get told "you're so trusting and open", they get told "It happened again!  How could you be so stupid!".  Or they get called misogynistic names either way.

I hope this helps and I'm sorry that the bad men have been harassing women to the point that we can no longer smile, make eye contact, and meet each one another.  Good luck and I hope you meet someone! 
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