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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, the thread didn't start deteriorating until page 2. That's better than I expected. OP, stop reading this thread and look elsewhere for advice.[/quote] OP does not have to be shamed about expecting that her DH would remain a man. It does not mean you are not a good person or a good liberal if you don't want to be married to a man transitioning. Seriously. He is not her child; he is her husband and romantic/sexual partner. She can love him, wish him luck, and move on to a life that does not involve having sex with a man who in his mind, and potentially in his body, is a woman. [/quote] What comments are you even talking about? The thread deteriorated when the transphobes came. Nobody said OP needs to stay in the marriage. [/quote] Nobody has said anything remotely transphobic. The simple fact is that current political correctness won't allow this topic to be discussed because it stipulates that her husband's choice must be respected at all costs, whether to her, their marriage, to their children, anything. Normally when someone raises a relationship problem here there is some discussion of finding a middle ground, or some sort of compromise, or discussing whether one member of the relationship is simply being unreasonable, but that isn't allowed in this case. Here the only acceptable answer is for him to make his decision and for her and their kids to try to find some way to cope with it. [/quote] You can advise divorce without being transphobic.[/quote]
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