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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have a second home and have found it much easier to make friends here than in our MD neighborhood. The neighborhood skews a little older since it's mostly second homes, but there are families with kids to retirees. It's in Massachusetts, which some people think is unfriendly to outsiders, but thee are enough people from other states that it levels the playing field. Also we have community gathering spaces (pool, tennis, etc) which helps bring people together. So perhaps look for a place that is a destination for people rather than one that is more parochial.[/quote]

Please tell me more about retiring to Massachusetts; it’s my dream at the moment.

My spouse and I have lived for 20 years in a Southern location where we’ve never felt at home, and we are beginning to think about where to go after retirement. This summer, we spent some time in western MA — close to where we began married life — and really felt at home.

It seems counterintuitive to head North in old age, but I am beginning to thrill to the idea.[/quote]

I plan on retiring to our home on Cape Cod. It's close to my friends and family. I've been here 40 years now and my husband's family is here and he has no interest in splitting time. Only one brother and a father, but apparently his bike riding friends are oh, so important. I'd be happy doing 6 months there, six months here. And will do just that. Sick of being separated from everyone I love so he can pretend he's Lance f-ing Armstrong. If he doesn't want to be there for six months, he either spends time alone or gets himself a 'friend'. Don't care either way. Sick of living my life for him and everyone else. [/quote]

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