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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does your husband know you are a lesbian? It sounds like you’ve been married a long time and I feel for you having to repress your sexuality for that long a time. At what point do you plan to tell your children? You really need to think through how you want to plan out the rest of your life and the effect it will have on your children. On the surface you likely appear to be a very happy couple to your children but you are living a lie that someday will get out. I’m not being judgmental because I feel for you and wish you well. [/quote]

Yes.  When he came clean about the affair we had a 4 hour long deep conversation about our realities.  I told him I thought I may be attracted to women exclusively, he wasn’t surprised.

I don’t know if we’ll tell our kids anything?  They’re not aware of our sex life so it feels weird to sit our 15 year olds down and tell them, “Oh!  By the way your parents never have sex but you’re dad has started an affair and your mom thinks she’s a repressed lesbian.”  That feels like a lot to put on two young teens and our 6&11-year-old definitely won’t understand.

They’d definitely all need to know if we were divorcing or dad was moving out.  That directly affects them, we both think negatively.  [/quote]

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