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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No advice. I use apps when I feel like dating. I had three dates last week. I am early 40s.

I would not have time to randomly meet in other ways. Apps are efficient.[/quote]

Agree - apps are the best of the lousy options. Joining a running club because I like to run was a complete waste. Few people are looking for a date and at least with an app everyone is. The key is filtering out the losers of whom there are many. [/quote]

What apps are you using?  I honestly don't have  much patience for losers[/quote]

[b]I am only on Bumble. I don't use other apps because I don't feel like it. I am incognito most of the time (that means they can't see me...I can see them and only swipe if I would be interested). [/b]I've met mostly quality people...not losers. [/quote]   Can you explain the bolded?   I'm divorced and have recently wondered about using a dating app, but I worry about my co-workers finding me.  I've seen some of them find other coworkers on dating sites and show each other and be all gossipy and laugh about it. Plus, I'm very private and they don't even know that I'm divorced.  Is there a discreet way to do this?  [/quote]

If you are incognito no one can see you unless you want them to (so you won't be found). In this mode, you have to express interest for someone to see you. I think this feature might only be available to women...I don't know. I am a woman (divorced). Most of my coworkers don't know but I don't care either. I do it because I can't deal with the amount of likes so I am in incognito mode so I can search others but they can't find me. Match as a simliar feature.

Who cares about your coworkers though? Get over that in general.[/quote]

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