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But the responses had value to others who were reading the thread, especially those who might have been forced to take a different perspective to the question being posed. [b]THAT is why it was wrong to delete them[/b]. It was entirely legitimate to question the OP's premise, and entirely within the scope of this site, IMO.
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Yet another poster here.  You seem to value your own unsolicited and off-topic advice more than anyone else does.  You offered advice that should appropriately been offered to the mother of the children, not to the OP and then took umbrage when the OP said that it wasn't helpful and had no value.  The OP was doing a good deed in offering an option to a possibly overwhelmed mother undergoing divorce.  While I understand why you were so adversely affected and I sympathize with your situation and how you felt, the point is that the OP is doing a GOOD THING by learning how to give the mother an option.  Your advice would be useful for the mother to consider when making her decision, but not for OP when making her decision whether to offer aid and how to do so.

As for posts being deleted, Jeff has pointed out that there was exactly ONE post that was deleted and it was about someone who objected to his stepping in to ask posters to keep the topic back on track based on the original question.  It was not a different perspective on the topic at hand.  Your comment in the original thread and your protestations in other threads are all there.  Jeff hasn't deleted your commentary, inappropriate as it was.[/quote]

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