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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. It’s complicated. I love her and we have 3 kids who would be destroyed by a completely broken home. All parties are women btw. Me, spouse, OW. [/quote] Apologies for assuming you and the OW were men. Doesn’t change the answer though, she doesn’t get privacy right now. Do you want to stay married? I’d guess therapy is the only way. This was a lot of deception for a spouse to get over without some kind of help. [/quote] Thank you and yes, the levels of deceptions (appointments, weekends with friends, etc) and the things said in the texts I read were completely crushing. I don’t really understand how people can engage in affairs and come home to their husbands, wives, families. An impulsive one-night thing I can get. This has broken me. Yes we had already scheduled our first therapy session for next week. We scheduled it when it was clear something was going on with her but before all of this came to light :([/quote]
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