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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Feminism is part of what makes a good wife, IMO. Part of feminism is being on guard for internalized patriarchy. That crops up a lot when wives send signals to men that they don’t want their husbands to look weak, and that they believe that how much money a man earns is related to their value as a partner.

So I say become more of a feminist if you want to be a good wife. [/quote]
OP here. No thanks. [/quote]
NP here.  Huh, OP?  Do you believe a man's worth is tied to his earnings?  Do you believe men should keep up appearances of strength?  Really?  [/quote]

OP here. Not fully, no. Men do have a place in the world as a provider and protector. All woman, feminist or not, seek men who make a good living. It’s in our DNA too seek out men to help provide for us. I think part of what makes a good spouse is his potential to earn ands provide, whether that be $50k or $500k/year.[/quote]

+1. OP is very naive but she’s right. Do you think your husband and many other men married you for earning potential? NO! They married you because you’re hot ( to them) and were willing to sleep with them. Men are simple - food and sex is really all they need. Thai thread has proven many times most men care very little about a woman’s education and career, but they care if she’s hot, fit, and willing to give then sex. Men who are making money don’t want a partner who makes money. They want someone to feed them and f*ck them. [/quote]

I was not the only hot woman around willing to sleep with DH, but that’s not relevant to the idea that you shouldn’t judge somebody based on how much they earn. You want somebody who works hard and is an adult and contributes when they can. But I good spouses you will still love and support their partners if they get laid off or choose a less lucrative job in exchange for more time at home or whatever. [/quote]

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