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[quote=Anonymous]If you have already put your DD on BC, I see no reason why you should punish these kids for having sex. Realistic boundaries is to have them have their own space, bedrooms and not worry about them having sex. Realistic boundaries is to make sure that the kid has therapy and make good choices. Make sure that he gets what he can from his dad through the use of state help or court order etc - medical care, childcare etc. Do a gofundme so that he can have money to apply to colleges etc. Realistic boundaries - he will apply to college, he will (along with your kids) do chores around the house. Give all the kids chores. Give them a time table and be firm about college application deadlines. Help this kid as if he is one of your own and make sure that he is not drowning. Failure is not an option regardless of if the relationship with your DD comes to fruition. [/quote]
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