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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He will pursue you when he's ready. Don't do anything other that what ever you were doing, let it grow organically. [/quote]

OP here. My worry is that I’m misreading and he’s really not into me. I don’t want to ruin our friendship and making it weird for our friends if I pursue him or show interest and he’s not interested. [/quote]

Why would it be weird for your friends? It's between the 2 of you. Let him know youare are interested he either is or isn't you go out and it works or it doesn't. If it's not worth the risk to you, you aren't that into him.[/quote]

OP here. We all hang out together. It would be weird if something goes wrong and we don’t hang out as a group anymore. [/quote]

You are concerned about this, but not concerned about how his now ex who you say is also your friend will feel about you dating your ex-boyfriend?

Quite simply you don't tell people until it's a serious thing, and if after that you act like the adults you presumably are and deal with seeing each other. I mean presumably, your friend group is chill enough that you can date each other's exes it shouldn't be a big deal for you to behave like civilized humans should things not go the way you want.

Just out of curiosity how old is everyone involved?[/quote]

OP here. She is not a close friend. We have not kept in touch and she had moved back home. She’s already dating someone else ( was on FB) and I will likely never see her again.

I’m not talking if we start dating and introduce the relationship to our friends. I’m talking about me misreading signals, making a move, and then finding out he identifies interested. It would be awkward and I’m sure he probably won’t want to hang out. This will likely be weird for our friends since we all hang out as a big group. It may be fine and we can brush it off, but it may end up making things weird. 
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We are all in our thirties[/b]. [/quote]

I would have guessed 20s. Too old for this shit.[/quote]

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