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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I don’t think he’s immature. I know him last ex cheated on him while telling him he was the love of life and she couldn’t wait to marry him. He knows I’m not cheating, but I worry he has some issues because of his past. [/quote]

Withdrawing affection from a partner because they draw a reasonable boundary is immature.. What his ex did has nothing to do with you. You and your  BF are in danger of messing up this and future relationships if you don't stop projecting your past traumas from past partners onto current partners and the current situation.[/quote]

DP and I agree his response is concerning. I can understand his hurt, because he’s so certain you’re “the one for him” and it felt like a rejection, but to close down and withdraw affection is a bit of a red flag. That being said, it sounds like you had a heart-to-heart afterward and that has the ability to kind of calm down the raw emotion and help you move forward. Where you go from here will tell you more about your ability to work through difficult moments.[/quote]

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