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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]His reaction is a giant red flag. At best, it's immature. At worst, it's manipulative. This is not how emotionally mature, functional people behave.

(The PP who is making an issue of you mentioning lessons learned from your ex is really off-base. It reeks of insecurity.)[/quote]

OP, you are smart. Six months is too soon to live together. At any age. [/quote]

Hard agree. Under zero circumstances should you give up your own place until you are married. It complicates things as your are discerning the progress of the relationship, and depletes the autonomy and power of the person moving in to their partner’s place.  Not having one’s own place clouds the decisions of what one will and will not compromise on as a relationship deepens and matures. I’m not opposed to lots and lots of sleepovers… but your mail needs to go to your own address until you’re married. That he’s pouting about this 6 months in woild be concerning to me if you were my good friend or my kid. [/quote]

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