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[quote=Anonymous]My parents are local and my in-laws are not. Before my daughter was born, I talked to my husband and his parents about knowing that they wanted to come down right away, which they did, but wanting to have the house to ourselves when we bring the baby home. They were all very understanding of this, and stayed in a hotel. It actually ended up that I was in the hospital so long (I had some post-partum complications) that they only visited there and had to leave before we went home. I think that if you talk to them rationally, not emotionally, it should make sense. FWIW, I know that there is some jealousy, etc., with the fact that my parents are local. My mother never stayed with us, but was over most days after the baby came home. I think rubbing this in and making it clear that you prefer to have your mother there, even if you do, just makes things worse[/quote]
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