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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP didn't talk about specific time at all -- if you read the post, it's entirely about the mental situation of the recently divorced person, not about specific time. She's saying that when someone seems really eager to move into another serious relationship, complains about the waiting periods for separation, and doesn't seek out therapy or other means of addressing the issues around their previous marriage and divorce, they are not ready to get married.

I would bet for some people that could take 3 months and for others it could take 3 years. It probably depends on the person and the marriage. But the point is that when people act like their first marriage is no big deal BUT they are really, really eager to jump into another one, that's probably an indication that they have unresolved feelings around their first marriage that they should really be dealing with before they get remarried.

Someone else mentioned waiting two years before remarriages. That seems excessive to me, personally, unless that person has specific issues they need to deal with.[/quote]

The OP literally says "wait a year or two"[/quote]

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