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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pur yourself in his shoes. What would you want your fiancee to think if your family openly criticized you? You’d want them to stand up for them! Desc FIL: I’m dumping him on you. You: Can’r wait! He’s the love of my life. [/quote] This is how I felt when my control freak MIL would dump on my then fiancé. It was clear quite quickly that what she described as his difficult/stubborn/argumentative nature was instead a strong-willed, decent character that she disliked because he was not willing to follow her commands without complaint (unlike his younger brother, the golden child). We’ve been happily married for more than 20 years, and I’m glad I trusted my instincts over the jabs of this silly woman. You need to spend some time thinking about whether FILand SIL are toxic people who you don’t trust or whether they are raising issues that may be red flags. Don’t marry anyone who does not seem to be an excellent person. [/quote]
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