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I agree with the advice to let it go.  That is my plan.

What I am now wondering is:

Was I wrong to be uncomfortable about it?

She was a bit miffed at me for being uncomfortable around it.  Is that fair?

Again, thanks everyone.[/quote]

Nah, man, you’re wrong. She was interviewing your potential replacement. Have some self respect and dump her. Ignore all the DCUM women who say you should be ok with that type of behavior. Hard Next the woman who does not respect you and who is clearly in monkey branch mode.

It’s not like there aren’t a ton of other single women out there FFS. [/quote]

What on earth. This is a great way to never get married or trust any woman, particularly an attractive woman.

I'm an outgoing, warm woman who is asked out a lot. Your girlfriend did very sane things -- she took this person at his word (that he wanted advice from her), she brought a friend, she mentioned her happy relationship. This is a person she will have to interact with in the future... she doesn't want to create a hostile dynamic with him (men often turn hostile when they feel overtly rejected.)

She created a dynamic where they can all walk away with dignity, and this guy, if he is not a complete idiot, knows she isn't interested.[/quote]

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