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[quote=Anonymous]From how you have put things (recognizing there are always 2 sides to the story): sounds like yet another DH who wants to have his cake and eat it too (he wants you to be an equal financial contributor and still do the bulk of the housework/child rearing). Not unusual, but is a crappy situation. Hire the housework out, tell DH to do his own damn cooking. My DH is low carb (easier to manage than vegan yes) and I try to make stuff he can eat, but if not, he makes his own food and/or supplements what I have made. . I’m not a short order cook, nor should you be. When he cooks, same applies: he makes meals he can eat, and I supplement for myself and kids by adding a starch or other side items if needed. And so on. We share the cooking 50/50ish. Why are your finances separate?!?! Super weird. The new job, increased hours should help. See how things shake out with the increased income. [/quote]
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