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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok I’m old but why is this a red flag?
I never actually dated more than one person at a time anyways. Who has time?[/quote]

It's funny you say old-fashioned, but our grandmothers did this all the time go on several dates with different guys until one showed himself to be the one you wanted to get to know on a deeper relational level, that would lead to marriage.   I find it bizarre that this generation thinks one date equal the start of the relationship. I think this kind of thinking leads to becoming overly invested in someone too soon, and how you end up wasting years of your life on a guy you decide isn't worth your time, but that you basically just kept dating just because.[/quote]

I think that's because sex is expected relatively soon in a relationship versus our grandmother's time. Seeing one person exclusively back in the day meant there was a more or less public understanding that the relationship was headed towards marriage. That's just not the case today.[/quote]

So basically creating fake intimacy in order to be intimate.[/quote]

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