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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don’t have to answer the door. You can talk with her in a public place, to be safe.  The fact that you even have to worry about this reflects her abusiveness and the red alarm telling you to exit this relationship ASAP.[/quote]

She behaved like this with me during our vacation trip about 10 days ago. We were in a hotel bar/restaurant and she got mad after seeing me texting my ex-wife on the well being of kids. She started shouting in public and threw hotel key card at me. I told her to leave which she did but came back again and made a scene there. I finished my food and quietly left.

Honestly, I am concerned that she would call cops to get me in trouble if she don't get her way. At a situation like this, they do hear what a woman is saying and always take guy as the miscreant. I have heard and seen enough horrible stories about it.

Yes, I am planning to not see her again and maintain my distance.

She was fine for first year and may be we had arguments now and then in the second year but gone pretty bad in last 3-4 months. [/quote]

Ok, so sounds off and like she has a drinking problem so I would end it.

I’m not saying you deserved her behavior, but FYI for future reference - if you are out with another woman and you need to text your ex about the kids, you should apologize for doing so and try to make it quick. Or, if possible, wait until you guys are having downtime or she is in the bathroom and then reply. Generally speaking, it is rude to be on your phone and texting when you are on a date. Your focus should be on her, not your phone, unless it is really important that you text back right away.

I’ve dated several divorced dads. Most of them rarely had to text their ex while with me. I do wonder if you communicate with your ex more than is normal.[/quote]

I was just thinking the same thing. I wonder if there are two sides to this story.

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Op Here, it could be as you are only hearing it from me. My concern is the reaction she gives that remotely gives her an idea that I could be cheating. It is way worse if she is drinking and then you can't have a peaceful conversation with her. [/quote]

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