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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How about you have a second child and then he quits and stays home? That’s fair and you’d value his domestic labor, right? [b]You don’t have a right to be the SAH one just because you have ovaries[/b].[/quote] Obviously. That’s why after my husband had hip surgery we decided that I should be the one to stay home and recuperate. If he can stay home after my c-section, it’s only fair right? [/quote] Complete non-sequitar. You didn’t say you want to stay home and recuperate after childbirth. You’d be getting a lot more support if you had. Recuperating from childbirth doesn’t require you to quit your job, for heavens sake. Ask me how I know. Opting out of the workforce is just not a decision one member of the couple gets to make unilaterally. Even if that member happens to be female. :roll:[/quote] Ok! Well guess what decision I do get to make? Not to have anymore children. [/quote]
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