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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry you’re going through this, OP. As someone who divorced an alcoholic, this isn’t going to work if he views you as the enforcer of his sobriety. He needs to want this for himself. You can be angry and disappointed, but if the only reason he’s sober any given day is because you’re watching, he’s always going to have set backs when you’re not around. Which is going to just fuel your anger and resentment.

You’re in an awful place. Your husband isn’t a bad person, he’s an addicted person. Unfortunately, your priority has to be the safety of your child, and if you feel she’s unsafe, you need to leave until your husband is in actual, committed recovery. [/quote]

This is OP. I have wondered if he would need for us to separate physically in order to take sobriety seriously. He only talks about taking action. I might consider asking him to go stay with a friend or something. I am not leaving our house with DD.

Also we are supposed to be doing a weekend away next weekend. Right now I can't stand the thought of 3 days in close quarters. I'm already so stressed out. [/quote]

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