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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At a crappy point in my marriage, I reconnected with the guy I was engaged to in college.  He dumped me, and I lived with the pain for years.  He lives in a different city I travel to sporadically on business.  We met a few times for drinks, coffee, etc.  Then, finally, at my hotel.  I really hoped it would turn in to something.  Instead, it freaked him out.  We've e-mailed and texted but haven't seen each other since that night.  Now, a few years later, my marriage is back off the ropes and he is getting a divorce.  I told him I won't sleep with him but still care and would love to see him for coffee when I'm next in his city.  Honestly, he was the best lover I ever had, 20 years ago and now.  Yet, I can't do that to my husband.  But, I can't seem to stop keeping in touch with him, either.  I really think it sucks that we keep missing each other, but I also hope that there is a reason for all this and that we really are not meant to be together.  Yet, I feel most myself and most alive when I talk to him.  Ugh.[/quote]

Hmm. I know I don't know the whole story, but he doesn't sound good for you. He seems great to you when you're at a low point in your marriage, but he has consistently disappointed you and left you. I'd advise you to drop the plans of a coffee date. If you do end up sleeping with him it's possible you'll get hurt all over again.[/quote]

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