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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also, there is a difference between having a crush and seeking out that crush. I am a PP. I’m not saying to stop having a crush. You can’t control how you feel. But you can absolutely control your conscious behavior and conscious thoughts. Do not seek out this crush and do not daydream about your crush.

If you cannot control yourself and find yourself fixating please get help. Like therapy to work through what’s going on here. If you are fixating that will also be a tell that something would have eventually probs happened and not good.[/quote]

+1 at a certain point, especially in adult life a crush becomes inappropriate if not unhealthy.

There's a thing called limerance and it's not healthy and I think that's what some pps are experiencing.
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Limerance isn’t healthy or unhealthy, or just is. It’s not voluntary, and it’s not a big deal.

Don’t send the signal that if somebody experiences limerence they aren’t an emotionally mature adult.

But yes, when you get fixated on a crush, redirect your attention elsewhere. [/quote]

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